When someone does you wrong and do not express any remorse, until you find out about what they did, are you more inclined to say “fuck you or I forgive you”?
Scenario
You and your spouse have been married for more than 10 years. Lately, you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you. You confront them and they assure you that they have been faithful. You choose to believe them and close the door on your intuitions. After some time pass, you begin to have suspicions of infidelity again and so you start a little private investigation. Your investigation leads to you catching your spouse actively cheating on you. You see the betrayal with your own eyes. Your spouse notices you and now pleads for your forgiveness. What is your decision moving forward?
